Searching about for something quick to read for this weekend’s mini Persephone readathon, I settled on How to Keep Your Home Without Help by Kay Smallshaw. It’s been sitting unread on my shelves since late 2011 so this was the perfect excuse to delve into it.
Published in 1949, this detailed housekeeping guide is targeted at the young housewife so I couldn’t help but think of my grandmothers as I was reading it. Born in 1920 and 1921, they were both married at the time this book was released, running their own homes, and carrying for small daughters (and presumably a little bit for large husbands). And I can confidently say that if they had read this book they would have a) laughed heartily at it and then b) throw it against a wall.
In terms of actual cleaning tips, the book has plenty of helpful suggestions that still stand. It assumes complete idiocy so if you grew up in a hovel and never saw someone vacuum a room you would be well served by it. However, idiots from hovels are not actually the target audience. Smallshaw has a very clear idea of her readers’ upbringing, as she makes clear with assumptions throughout the book as to how her readers grew up:
Mother was not so far wrong when she insisted that all the rooms must be “turned out” every week. Mother, however, had regular help. She did the cooking herself and she had a washer-woman in weekly so that she could concentrate on housework alone.
This, clearly, is where she would have lost my grandmothers (actually, the upholstery whisk mentioned as a key piece of equipment might have done that. But if they’d made it past that, this would have done it). My Canadian grandmother grew up on a dairy farm. Her mother decidedly did not have regular help and the cleanliness of the house was secondary to the cleanliness of the dairy. My Czech grandmother, on the other hand, grew up in middle class comfort, with a governess, a chauffeur, a cook, and a cleaner. She was never taught to cook, never mind clean, on the assumption that she would always have staff to do it for her. You needed to know how to set a menu, not cook it. More importantly, she grew up with the assumption that she’d be going to university and then getting a job – something that clearly never troubled the mind of Smallshaw’s ideal reader.
Both my grandmothers ended up having very different lives than their mothers but both were united in one attitude: to be houseproud is a sin when there are so many more important things in life. Whereas for Smallshaw, it seems that being houseproud is a woman’s entire raison d’etre. (See Perfect Wives in Ideal Homes by Virgina Nicholson for a full portrait of this claustrophobic mindset.)
When Smallshaw sticks to cleaning basics, it’s not too contentious (except for her bold statement that it doesn’t matter if you dust or do the floors first. This is madness – always dust first. No arguments). Her standards are insane and clearly meant to occupy a bored housewife by finding as many unnecessary things as possible for her to fill her day with. Your home would in fact be sparkling but your mind would be screaming out for stimulation if you allowed yourself to be held captive by your possessions in this way. She has helpful and deeply condescending tips to save yourself from the heavy work, such as “A clever wife induces the husband to regard the boiler as his special province!” The exclamation point is a dagger to the heart.
While I trust her cleaning tips (but not the deranged schedule she recommends), I am less confident that following her cooking tips would yield good results. Her idea to make efficient use of the steamers seems particularly unappetizing:
Use the bottom of the steamer for a light sponge pudding or batter. The next compartment will take potatoes, and on the top, fillets of fish between two plates.
If my grandmothers had made it through the upholstery whisk, and miraculously through the assumptions about what their mothers had done, I know their contempt for Smallshaw would finally have peaked in the chapter on budgeting. In “helpfully” guiding her simpleminded readers, Smallshaw advises: You’ll be remarkably lucky if your estimated expenditure comes within your income! At this stage, you and your husband will probably agree on the housekeeping allowance you can have…The idea that they would have let their husbands be involved in managing the money is the laughable one. My Canadian grandmother broke free of the farm after high school and worked in a bank, where she eventually became assistant manager during the war. Even without such formal training, it was the norm in many farming families for the wife to manage the money. They usually had more education than their husbands (who often left school at the start of their teen years) and were more confident with numbers. My other grandmother ended up in a dual-income house where, aside from doing the shopping and sometimes cooking Sunday lunch, households duties were pretty evenly shared. The idea of him “letting” her have a portion of their shared income would not have gone over well – and I presume it would never even occurred to him.
Smallshaw concludes the book with a bit of an about face. After extolling the virtues of obsessive cleaning, she then concedes that her readers may eventually have children, at which point standards collapse entirely. If the reader had made it through to the end, perhaps this would have given them some hope. It is a welcome acknowledgement of reality after many pages of fantasy.
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